so its done... results?

friday dec 09, 2011   
MOOD/EMOTIONS: depressed, sad, defeated, failed wish i could go to sleep and never wake up.

well i went with hubby to richmond to do some shopping but we didnt find nything but boxers! then he wanted a snack so he wanted to go to five guys and get some cajun fries... so thats where we next went and then to our appointment... i was so anxious i was barely able to breathe - unless i was consciously taking those breaths my therapist said i looked scared to death - ya - i was! so first i went in and talked to her and she prepped me for what was next - thing is i was TOTALLY not ready... she asked if i gave hubby the letter and i said yes, then she asked if i had the other letter with me - whoa what - other letter with me? no - i thought she wanted me to give it to him AFTER this appointment shit... she then says i will have to just tell him myself then - no im not ready to do this! i cant! im wishing i could die or at least disappear right about now!

so she brings him in and things get - busy? and he gives his input, his side and his opinion and i give what i can seeing as i rally was not ready for this... i sat there legs tight to my chest and shaking my leg - not because of any other reason other than i was freezing! her office thermometer read 69 and i felt like an icescicle!

we came to an agreement that when i feel like i need to purge - i will talk to my husband and if possible go to his work and sit with him for a while... this is REALLY going to be a challenge for me seeing as i normally wait until he leaves or isnt paying attention to purge and now i have to make that change for this to work... i want to get better - i REALLY do... i just wish this was not so hard.
im REALLY scared - i am petified of the weight they say im going to have to gain - i do NOT want to and i am not feeling good with it at all... i need to find a way to maintain this weight though without gaining - until i can get comfortable with it and then work on that... my first and biggest goal though is to stop purging alltogether... then ill work on the other side... the problem is hubby wants me to eat NOW and keep it all down... well since im scared to death of food - i have no idea how this will happen...
i hope i have the strength to do this and make it work this time...